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eNewsletter February 2012

Dear Everyone,

Hi! And how are you all? It has been a great month in January especially with the Chinese New Year holidays, and yes, as always, I think I had a little bit too much to eat. The late nights did not help either. But I reconcile by saying that it is only once a year and I think I do have to let ‘my hair down’ every once in a while. I was also glued to the TV watching the Australian Tennis Open. The men’s final was probably one of the finest I have ever watched and it was a relief when Djokovic finally won. For the ladies final, I was cheering for Sharapova, but unfortunately Victorua Azarenka came out the winner. I was however touched when Azarenka mentioned in her victory speech about the fact that her grandmother was the person who inspired her most, and that is what I want to talk about in this newsletter.

A year ago, Azarenka, who hails from Belaruas, contemplated taking a break from tennis after losing to Li Na in the 2011 Australian Open. She discussed it with her family and had a heart to heart talk with her grandmother. She told her grandmother that she was not ‘happy’ playing tennis anymore. Her grandmother replied, “Don’t complain, just work harder”. It was a short reply, but it had a profound effect and made her reflect on her life, career and yes, tennis. It was then that she realized that she had a job many people would give an arm and a leg for. She compared her own situation to that of her grandmother, who was working three jobs at once at 71 years old and then realized how fortunate she was. She had just lost a tennis match and yet was complaining like it was the end of the world. In a sense, what her grandmother was telling her was to ‘shut up and stop complaining because she had a very good life’. This simple advice gave her renewed vigour and enthusiasm for tennis and Azarenka says “"Now I'm always happy on the court and I look forward to every challenge and try to be disciplined in what I'm working hard for." And with that attitude, she has been amply rewarded by winning the Australian Open and is currently the world number one ranked player.

There are a few things we can all learn from Azarenka’s situation.

  • As much as we think our lives and careers are ‘bad’, there will always be many other people who are very much worst off. It’s all relative. Hence be optimistic and look at all the positive things about your life right now.
  • We usually like to compare ourselves to people who are better off than us. This is okay but please remember that there are many people who would give anything to have the careers you are currently having too. Learn to have an attitude of gratitude and realize how blessed you are.
  • We all want more and more money and think that this is the ultimate solution to all our problems. This, probably, is one of the main reasons why a lot of people are unhappy. However just go to Global Rich List (www. globalrichlist.com), enter your annual income, and see the result. Chances are you are much richer than billions of other people in the world. This will give you a better perspective of your life.
  • If you are really unhappy with your situation, then do take decisive action to change it. The worst thing to do is to moan and groan and continue to do things that you are unhappy doing. Have a set of goals and then work hard towards achieving it. In the process please remember that no matter how far you go, there will always be someone doing a bit better than you!

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I do hope all of you will have a great month of February. Take care.

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Heera Singh
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HEERA Training and Management Consultancy
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